Community rules

1. 1

   Yes means yes.

   A like, match or plan is never consent to anything more.

   Ask before you change the plan. Stop when someone says stop, goes quiet or changes their mind. Pressure of any kind gets you removed.

2. 2

   Meet in public first.

   Every plan starts at a public place.

   Pick a cafe, a bar or a busy park for the first meetup. An address is shared only after both people confirm a plan.

3. 3

   Nothing is for sale.

   No paying, gifts or money for dates.

   Asking for money, gifts or payment of any kind ends your account. Offering it does too.

4. 4

   Real adults only.

   Real age, real photos. Report anyone who seems under 18.

   Use your own photos and your real age. Anyone who seems under 18 is reviewed first and removed.

5. 5

   Skip the small talk.

   Say what you want and when. A match is a meetup, not a date, unless you both decide it is.

   Say what you want and when you are free. A yes is a plan to meet, nothing more, unless you both decide otherwise.

See something that breaks a rule? Report it in the app or read the safety page.